
Researchers concluded that levels of sexual desire were higher in women who were moderate drinkers of red wine than in their counterparts who preferred other alcoholic drinks, or were teetotal.
♫ ♪ Red red wine I love you right from the start ♪ ♫
♪ ♪ Right from the start with all of my heart ♫ ♪
Silly from the Telegraph.
Drinking does not enhance love or desire.
"Red, red wine you make me feel so fine, you keep me rockin' all of the time."
Except that in my case it doesn't, it only gives me killer migraines. It's a good song, though.
Trex, it gives me killer migraines, too.
Red wine = "Not tonight, honey. I've got a headache" =/= sexual desire.
WOW!! UB40.. love their songs... but what really increases women's sexual desire is an atractive and gentle man.... without it not even a whole bottle of red wine would help! LOL
Alcohol increases a womans sexual desire!? NO!? I want whoever wrote this article's job. Maybe I could get paid to write an article about how the sun is warm, or how water is wet.
Perhaps if you'd actually deign to read the article you'd see alcohol in general had much less effect than red wine specifically.
Im gonna have to call bullsh** on that.
Why? There are a lot of enzymes in grapes besides the sugars that ferment into alcohol. Same goes for every other adult beverage. My husband can drink bourbon, but scotch gives him wicked allergic reactions. We can both drink white wine but not red for the same reason. Alcohol content has nothing to do with it.
Could this be a case of priming? Wine is more romantic right?
Oh wow no wonder people in the thirteenth would strap on a chasity belt before going to dinner gatherings.grinns
There's one little rider that needs to be attached here, however. People who are prone to migraines (and that's a LOT of people, male and female) usually have an awful reaction to red wine. White wine is usually okay, although NOT advised if you've had a migraine recently or think you might have one starting. But red wine, even in very moderate amounts, has the effect of a whack on the left temple with a baseball bat. And nothing will kill a woman's libido faster than a pounding head and nausea. There are some who say that sex cures migraines, but when I've got a migraine I haven't got the energy to check it out. Plus it would be very unromantic to barf on my dear husband.
Tre,
I use one bottle of Pinot Noir and 1/2 cup of cognac for my Beef Bourguignon - Ina Garten's recipe. That's enough alcohol for a year.
Yes, but the alcohol burns off during cooking, and apparently so do some of the other noxious enzymes. I have a killer recipe for pork chops, with a red wine, tomato and curry-powder sauce. Red wine in that form doesn't bother us.
People who are prone to migraines (and that's a LOT of people, male and female) usually have an awful reaction to red wine
It's the sulfates... try pseudoephedrine ( sudafed ) before enjoying the wine and then the next morning. Really cuts the chance of a migraine a lot.
As far as the whole question about sexual desire I don't. Lets just make sure that teenagers don't find out about this or they'll be drinking and having sex all the time !
"Lets just make sure that teenagers don't find out about this or they'll be drinking and having sex all the time !" And what a terrible change that would be from the current state of affairs ;-)
;-)
yea.
Don't worry!! I guess teenagers don't need any kind of aphrodisiacs...
Hey! I like red wines too! *grin*!
(hint, hint, hint!)
In my life I observed how alcohol let the worst of the females.
Girls going with the boyfriends of the friends in the same party and using the bed of the hostess.
Married women letting other men to do things that they would not do in their own sober moments.
As Dorothy Parker famously said, "What a party! One more drink and I'd have been under the host."
Love red wine.....but funny the only thing it gives me is migraines :(
So, I guess my desires will just dry up and fade away.
OH REALLY NOW ~!_? ( I don't need any red wine ) I'm good to GO...the moment He walks in that Door !
Looks like Linda knows the secret, too!
:)
Who said also that garlic is romantic? Ugh.
The thinking of the smell of garlic and booze mixed kill my romantic thoughts.
From my personal experience, there is no aphrodisiac more overrated than wine, and more underrated than a good cup of coffee.
Looks like Linda knows the secret, too!
Me too and it's not a liquid.
I'm all ears. Spill...
High 5's Nearing.
Exactly!
:)
Oh Vis darling......it has nothing to do with ears! ....well....nope.....no ears! :)
Not even a gentle nibble on the lobes, GGM?
Hmm. Mayyyyybe. It all depends.
Vis sorry to ask but are you male or female.
I ask because if you want to know the secret I have to decide which version to tell you.
;)
Oh Yeah....! Close the doors...and drop the draw'ers.... The Wine comes later !
Boys !
Yep the wham bam thank you man the fiver's under the lamp....here's your ripple.
I like my secret better :)
Male but give me both versions and a demonstration
Mother Nature provides.
*grin*
Now Now...Vis....Mother nature most definitely provides...but rarely does it ever give up it's secrets......and neither do I ;)
Besides.....the fun part is in the....oops! You see?!! You almost got me.....now, Vis....behave! ;)
lol.
Grins back at Nearing.
exits the room *whistling and giggling*
Nearing ,
You have shown yourself able to attract all the
male attention anyone would want .
Your seed on the NASA hoax thing did the trick .
Are you feeling "stimulated " ?
nonStitiousZealot:
You have shown yourself able to attract all the male attention anyone would want .
Your seed on the NASA hoax thing did thhe trick .
Are you feeling "stimulated " ?
Certainly.
*grins* back at GGMSusi!
If you send 1 of those grins my way ,
I could send out a "probe" onto your "surface " .
Looks at Nearing.
Did you ever think writing about the moon would get you a proposition like that?!
Uhm, Zealot.......even the moon has boundaries....perhaps you should take a study?
perhaps you should take a study?
study of ?
What are you lasses hiding ?!
Anyway , after that lunar thing , I feel like
laying back and lighting a cigarette
even though I don't smoke .
Boundaries darlin', boundaries.
As for what we lasses are hiding..........come now......you don't think I'd tell you that quickly....do you?
LOL!
so exactly what was the name of the wine again?
I wanna make sure to procure all the inventory possible to satisfy all of the ladies
BadBoy......Wine, like ladies, come in many different varieties. Most reds, though, are extremely complex, rich, full-bodied, and with many different layers of flavors. You just don't go to a liquor store and pick one up like a 12-pack of Bud.
Unlike white wines, that you can put in the refrigerator to chill......reds, you let them sit and breathe and relax....and then you sit back and enjoy it taking all that complexity in.
Badboy.........There are Merlots, Bordeaux, Beaujolais, Syrah, Pinot Noir, Shiraz, Chinon, Cabernet Sauvignon, Sangiovese, etc.
Do your research it's very easy to find a type of wine that suits you and your tastes....just like women. :)
The best part of being bad is earning the reputation, I do not discriminate
I love all flavours, from all vineyards
Depends on the season, the continent, the grape and most importantly, the proper aging
There are wines you purchase to enjoy.....they are of the highest quality, they age nicely and are worth the investment. These are the wines you hold on to.
There are wines you buy to just get drunk with or pass the time.
There is much to be said for the quality of the wine as there is for the quality of the investor.
Wow ,
You really know your way around a metaphor .
I'm impressed .
I'm glad you think so.
Question is......do you agree or not?
Let's see if you can figure out a way to impress me.
As with seasons differing wines do have a place. As for the costs, all things are relative. The discerning investor will always value quality as well as investment potential.
As for the more readily available flavours, they too have a place in BadBoy's cellar
quality over quantity will always prove the better.
Btw Zealot :)
Susi ,
How can I not agree with that metaphor .
It covers about every "variety of wine " .
As to impressing you , don't hold your
breath .
You are talking to someone with an
Engineering background , not English Lit .
"The divergence of the B field is always identical to 0 "
No , I didn't think that would impress you but that
was J C Maxwell's A game .
"You don't say!"?
Zealot;
I am about as smart with anything having to do with math, physics, engineering, etc. as Sarah Palin is with politics, tact, diplomacy, & geography. So, yes, although I can't say that formulaic equations on a page don't send my heart beat racing up the scale.......it is rather impressive.....and yes, it does impress me. I think creative minds always tend to envy those minds that are analytical like yours is.
Btw, I don't hold my breath......I rather like my light brown skin vs. a cyanotic blue ;)
I will leave all the electromagnetic theorizing to you since it's probably your "A'" game as well.
Me thinks I have rendered Zealot mute. Sigh! ;)
Susi ,
Not mute , just occupied .
And if you're holding your breath till you turn blue
you're doing it much too long !
Sarah Palin should stick to what she excels at , comedy .
Other than writing what do you
excel at ?
So, sorry to have interrupted your day.
What do I excel at? Hmm. Boy, is that ever a loaded question! LOL.....just kidding. I suppose you could say my "A" game is anything having to do with being extremely creative.....imaginative.....thinking quickly on my feet and getting to the crux of the matter without a whole lot of fluff. But my biggest achievement is my daughter she's turned out quite the young lady with creative talents that leave her mom smiling from ear to ear.
Anything else you want to hear I guess I'll have to email you LOL! ;) So, kind sir, what bliss do you follow?
Like I said......I don't hold my breath ......I need to work on holding my tongue though.....LOL
So, sorry to have interrupted your day.
We have just met and already you're apologizing ?
I hope that's not what you expect from me !
Do you think that love is having to say you're sorry
every 5 minutes ?
I congratulate you on your creative daughter .
Apparently the apple drops close to the tree .
Is she also a writing prodigy ?
Do you believe that opposites can do more than
just attract ?
As far as bliss goes , I get that from doing
slow motion katas and observing excellence
in
whatever form it comes in .
Ok then, Zealot or should I rephrase and call you Sensei? :) I take back my apology and hold it in account until it's truly necessary! :)
Do I think that love means to apologize every 5 minutes? For the love of God....HELL NO. As far expecting you to apologize.....uhm.......if you f'up...man up. I'll leave it at that.
Do I believe that opposites can do more than just attract?.....Most definitely. They can polarize, they can destroy, they can reak havoc. But then again, in my experience so can complete commonalities. Besides, opposites pose a lot more fun and challenge than walking around with a mirror in your hip pocket. Opposites, it seems, have more to banter and debate over which adds to the appeal. It can be as slow and methodical as a Kata or as intense as a paso doble. It's that unknown variable that exists between opposites that can make it more enjoyable than frustrating.
As for my daughter, she expresses herself more clearly through her drawing and CGI...but she does know her way around prose. She is my little geisha with a heart of a dragon.
Excellence whether it comes in slowly like kata or quickly like lightning should always be observed.....it will always leave something behind that teaches or at least plants questions in your mind that push to expand on that excellence.
By the way, do you prefer me to continue using your nom de vigne or areyou going to tell me your name?
too funny. "Love does not mean you have to apologize every five minutes."
If you're wrong all the time and realize it, then give I'm Sorry a shot. The movie Love Story is kind of yesteryear.
This has to do with red wine, right?
Feeling is one thing. Reacting another. I never apologize for how I feel. Reaction on the other hand............and that has nothing whatsoever to do with love or any facsimilie thereof.......
LOL
Is in need of some really really strong proofed water right now. LOL! Or maybe just a piece of dark chocolate is better.
Kelan ,
One person's wrong is often another person's "Huh ? "
If a couple each thinks the other is wrong "all the time"
maybe they are with the wrong partner .
And Susi ,
Since we have gotten way off the topic of
red wine , we should continue this privately .
Talk to you later .
Hey Zealot.......You're the one that went to the moon......not me :)
Privately. Hmm. Ok. Privately it is. You have mail.
Drinking red wine right now.
*checking*
Nope, not doing a thing. I'll stick to the tried and true.
*grin*
Just had a glass of red with dinner. Yeah, me either.
Maybe it's because the most 'stimulating' thing that's on the agenda tonight is a 7 pm meeting and then a complete reworking of a project that I thought was finished but someone else had other ideas.
Sigh.
Hmm Zealot.
Zealot -
"If a couple each thinks the other is wrong "all the time"
maybe they are with the wrong partner."
Check.
Susi -
Enjoy! I'll stick with a beer. It is about 100 degrees here. Probably the time to drink water and hydrate but I did that all day long.
Kelan;
Nothing wrong with a cold one either! :) Cheers!
hmmmmmmmmmm
Have something stuck in your mouth Darryl?
:)
nope..... just like hummers
Ah I see.
typical.
TYPICAL
ha.
That will be the day CC
Oh yes it will!
P
But I digress D I like Hummers too.....they're big, roomy and I love to drive them and ride in them.
What kind of Hummer do you have?
What kind of Hummer do you have?
..........a blond, brunette & redhead
huh?
I have found that the brunette hummers are by far the best, 'specially when they smile
Humm...
Whispers P
I know that a fat wallet increases my desire for a man, more then all the red wine in the world.
What about a sense of humor? I go for a man who makes me laugh.
3sheets........funny, that reminds me a song! ;)
Trex a sense of humor is definitely a must!
So is a man who can man up when he F's up! :)
I go for a man who makes me laugh.
Each her own.
Well my ideal man is one who:
1). Has a large bank account.
2). No family.
3). Bad heart.
4). Very old.
5). My name on the will.
We all should have learned something from Anna Nicole Smith.
Or from Jay Geils. "First I look at the purse!"
Trim-Spa Babeeeeeee!
LOL!
So there was this guy in his 60's .
One day he shows up at his country club
with a beautiful blond babe on his arm .
Amazingly , she is hanging on his every word ,
laughing at all of his jokes , etc .
Later on , his friend pulls him aside and tells
him to spill the beans .
"How did you get this to happen ?! "
He said it was simple ; I lied about my age .
Friend : So you told her you were 35 ?
No . I told her I was 90 .
haha
wanna be bad GGMS?
Darlin' I am never bad. :)
My observations have been that while red wine may increase a woman's libido, it also tends to make them meaner than a badger with a headache.
If a woman is mean by nature it doesn't take wine to bring it out!
Funny, I've never seen a badger with a headache.....is like a man with an axe to grind?
Probably, badgers are notoriously short tempered. You are probably right about natural disposition too. My expedience with wine and women is rather limited, and given past experience I would like to keep it that way.
Twice bitten, twice shy.
Poor thing. I hope someone comes along to erase all that and you can enjoy life with someone who isn't much of a badger
A migraine will make anyone mean, human or badger. Alcohol will make you madder if you're already mad, or more depressed if you're already depressed.
Migraines just make me crawl under the covers and sleep.
What makes me pissy is when someone starts pawing at me knowing full well that if he keeps at it what he's going to get is a face full of pissed off wench.
Men just never learn do they?
nope
....,MMM, I have layed down with a badger, or two.... in my time, Funny, Not single one of them had a "headache" ? After I was finished ! How interesting ?
Sweetie the headache doesn't have after....it's before :)
that depends on what head we'er descussing...! ( I know, I'm being bad ! )
lol,lol..
LOL! ooh ah! ah!
Well....one brings pleasure one way.....the other many!
'taint nuthin wrong with bein' a lil bad from time to time.
;)
LindaMarie2
what head we'er descussing...! ( I know, I'm being bad ! )
Well then, I can help you with that!
Ladies regarding all of your comments,
I appreciate the early morning stimulation, but how do expect me to concentrate today after reading this? My imagination with be running wild. It is off to 2nd cold shower this morning. Shame on you. I love it.
Leo, surely you can retire to your den, and thumb through all your interesting books, to calm yourself while your imagination runs wild.... cold showers are only temporary Leo !
Shame on us? Ha! Leo....shame on you for admitting you're so easily stimulated over words on a screen ;) If I were you I'd be careful with that showerhead and set it to 'low' LOL!
Thinks that there should be more articles seeded like this one so we can get away from the serious BS elsewhere and just have fun and a whole lotta giggles.
Earth's crammed with heaven -- And every common bush afire with God -- But only he who sees takes off his shoes; The rest sit round it and pluck blackberries.
- Elizabeth Barrett Browning
The only thing red wine increases is my time in bed the next morning having a hangover.
Uhm.......sure if you sit there and drink the whole damn bottle or more than 1......any liquor is going to give you quite the overhang if you over do it! I could say something else......but I shall behave! :)
hey, don't hold back. I don't drink a whole bottle. In fact, I never drink red wine anymore because no, it does not increase my sexual desire and newsflash: everyone's tolerance for a particular drink, food, whatever...is different.
what increases my sexual desire is a particular human being. I know, so old-fashioned.
Kelan....I don't hold back when it matters :) Time and a place for everything. You aren't old-fashioned. I feel the same way.
Really
Hmmmmmmmmmm
Yes....really.
well then......................
we'll just have to see 'bout that
where's nearing when I need her?
_________.
Hmmmmmmmm
I wonder where that picture is.. probabbly cool some of "wine"ing 'roud here if I could find that
Just hummmmmmmmin away
Oh, I'm sorry Darryl didn't you get my email?
I think you should check and let me know as discussed.
Sorry you missed it.
didn't miss a thing, pretty lady
Okie dokie pokie D
Hmm.....perhaps there is one thing you do miss?
Ok well this article has reached it's last call.......time to go back to the salt mines of seriousness.
Is so HAPPY she received a deliciously sweet distraction that (oops!) kept me from going to a meeting I really didn't want to go to......no wine necessary because the sugar and spice was oh so very nice.
:)
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